Ten on Tuesday: solo travel edition

DSCN1449 web-sized palm tree, Tucson, Arizona

  1. I’m back from a weekend visit with my dad in Arizona.
  2. As nice as 85 degrees feels in late October, especially when I’m looking up at palm leaves ruffling in the breeze, I’m glad to return to wearing sweaters.
  3. Phoenix Sky Harbor airport is not appropriately air-conditioned — especially for this middle-aged woman. The only time I felt cool enough was when I was standing in front of a giant fan while I was being patted down for security.
  4. Note to future self: do not wear cute tops with bling on them when flying, or you will have to be patted down/around/over/under in front… and in front of many people. (This happened flying both directions because those were the shirts I had brought for the trip.)
  5. Arizona drivers are capital C, capital R, capital A, capital Z, capital Y. That’s right: C-R-A-Z-Y. And I’m not talking about the old, retired folks!  Speeding from red light to red light, weaving around those [very few] of us who are obeying the laws, taking tailgating to a higher level… with all of that going on around me, I had no trouble staying awake while driving. Fear for my safety kept me alert and defensive.
  6. Kia Soul is a great car for a 5’10” woman. It also handles really well on Rollercoaster Road in Tucson. However, I never did figure out how to adjust the balance/fade for the speakers. (What’s with that? Those controls are obvious and intuitive on my Kia Sedona.) 
  7. When playing “Go Fish” with Dad, who has Parkinson’s, it’s best to look away while he rifles through his cards and to pretend that he has never played the game in his entire life. (He has, but he doesn’t remember it and it would be sad to remind him of this.)
  8. Happy hour at the hotel isn’t much fun when I’m alone, although I’m not sure if this is because I’m not there for fun or because I don’t have a friend/spouse with me — or is it because I am getting old? I only had one of my two free beverages each night.  Eating alone is best done with a book, but if it wasn’t for the need for nutrition, I would probably skip the entire event.
  9. Sometimes, it’s awfully nice to have a king-sized bed and ALL the pillows. I didn’t wake up with sore arms or sore shoulders or a sore back.
  10. While I need my alone-time on a daily basis, I also need to spend time interacting with other people. After 48 hours of being on my own — and with none of my hobbies available — I found myself becoming rather bored.

Now it’s your turn… 
Do you ever travel alone? Do you enjoy it? 

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6 thoughts on “Ten on Tuesday: solo travel edition

  1. I spent 2 days alone in NYC after the college tour trip in 2013. It was fun! All the broadway shows I wanted!

    Re your #2, i am so tired of 85°+! I would love to be able to wear a sweater again.

  2. I’ve traveled alone, for two and three days at a time, and I enjoyed the freedom of not having to be concerned about a fellow traveler’s needs and desires. On the other hand, there were several times I wished someone was with me to see the eagle with a salmon, or steelhead, in its beak, or the breathtaking sunset from the deck of a motel, or take a side trip off the beatened path that I would not try to take alone.

    Elder son, who lives in Tucson, has always said Phoenix Airport is the pits and has avoided having to take off or land there for quite a while.

    I do love your photography!

    Hugs! (Has your e-mail address changed?)

  3. Oh, I’m glad you mostly had a good trip. Sometimes it’s surprising how difficult it can be to travel solo, isn’t it?

  4. I kind of love to travel alone! I’ve done a bunch of small trips, and 2 big week+ trips through Europe solo. It’s nice to obsess about getting photos without feeling guilty about making other people wait for me 😉 I found I am VERY VERY OUTGOING in bars and restaurants after a few days solo….!

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